【雜記】0811

"I like to think that maybe one day you’ll be an old man like me, talking a younger man’s ear off, explaining to him how you took the sourest lemon that life has to offer and turned it into something resembling lemonade. If you can do that, then you will still be… taking three babies home from this hospital. Just maybe not the way you planned."(This is us, 2016)

想到生日就不知不覺想到 This is us.

都27歲了，知道任何的願望還是得靠自己才能實現，不被懶惰拖延繼續邁進才是一輩子的願望。

今年五月求婚之後要開始準備很多結婚的雜事，雖然早就知道結婚是兩家人的事，要滿足各方的需求還真很煩，無論怎麼做都會有意見。當無法滿足各方意見時，也只能盡力。

不過最討厭的還是前面說都可以，事後又發表長篇大論來暗酸否定你所有的決定。
長輩都做不太到真正的放手，改變不了別人的想法實在困難，只能從改變自己開始，期待自己未來不要成為這種長輩。